During my visit with a woman who is on the right side of 80 and still going (somewhat) we got on the subject of men. In particular, finding one. She gave me this sage advice:
"What you have to do is get yourself a couple of bikinis, then go on down to the lake. Throw your blanket down (any which way) and lay down on it. When a man comes along...one you might be interested in, say: "Excuse me sir, would you straighten out my blanket (with a smile and a wink of course!)" "
There you have it!